How To Keep Your Relationship As Awesome As Day 1 ?
No matter how much you love your boy or your girlfriend, no matter how unique you think your relationship is, it can sometimes feel boring. But this is very normal; it’s something that happens naturally and you may have to put some effort to make your relationship fun again.
Here’s what you should try:
1. Surprise Each Other
Surprising each other is an easy way to make things feel more fun. It’s not hard to do, you can, for instance:
-Meet your partner at their train stop, bus stop, or in the driveway after work with a fun airport-pickup type sign.
-Record a sweet message for your partner (a Voice Memo).
-Show up at your partner’s work to have lunch or dinner together.
2. Try A New Activity
It is very exciting to try new activities with your partner, so go ice skating, rock climbing, or try a dance class. And if you’re terrible at it? All the more fun — you can laugh through it together.
3. Goof Off
Sometimes it’s fun just to be totally goofy with each other. Amy Levine, sex coach and founder of Ignite Your Pleasure, says “When we get to the comfortable, stable place of knowing we have ‘secure’ status with someone else, it’s common to lose the playfulness that got you together in the first place. My girlfriend and I spend around 99 percent of our time alone acting like idiots, and I love it.”
“Give yourself permission to be silly — it’s easy to take relationships way too seriously,” Jonathan Bennett, relationship/dating coach and owner of The Popular Man, says. “You don’t always have to be on your best behavior. Sometimes, it’s OK to simply have mindless laughter and goof around with your significant other.”
4. Come Up With a Bucket List
If you have trouble coming up with fun things to do on any given day, then coming up with a big list with your partner will give you something to refer back to. Come up with a ‘bucket list’ and think about things you’ve always wanted to try that you can do together. Doing something out of the ordinary can add both excitement to the relationship and help you feel more connected to your partner. Then, when you’re both feeling bored or out of ideas, pick something off of the list to try.
5. Travel, Go For Hiking…
If you really feel stuck in a rut, don’t be afraid to change your atmosphere— it’s an easy change that can do a lot of good. “Changing your environment will help create new emotional responses to your partner, instead of triggering old undesirable ones”
Think outside the box! Don’t give a chance to your daily routine to destroy your relationship. Be different !
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